| | I read this (簡單) in someone's blog and I totally agree with this. And I have some thoughts.
Love is Simple. I am Simple.
I don't need a man to treat me to expensive dinner or give me 99 roses. I don't need a man to drive a big car or live in a big house. I don't need a man to earn a 5 figure income (yet his money was not spent on me!).
I just need a man who loves, understands and cares for me. A man who loves me for who I am... I am a girl who is not perfect. No perfect figure, no perfect skin... Mo Masters/Doctorate degree, no fantastic career... Doesn't speak or write perfect English/Chinese.... ETC
So I'm not looking for a perfect man. Who cares if he doesn't live in a big house, drive a big car or earn a fantastic income? Most importantly, it's Love. We both love each other. Sincere and true.
What's the use even If he's a prince, but his "Love" for you is not true or doesn't last? Or you don't love him?
When it comes to love, it makes wonder. You able to accept a man as who he is, regardless of whatever "list" that you already have. That's the Power of Love.
And, you feel that you are so blessed when you are being loved.
I think there are some people in this world who may not experience it yet. Hence, the words that came out of their mouth can be hurtful. That's because they have not being loved and in love at the same time. I wish them luck. But God is a good God. Everything comes in a pair. Just need to open your eyes and accept it when it's given to you. Sometimes, blessings are in disguise. If a frog can gives you the most love and care in the world, why do you need a prince who can only give you material wealth? But a lot of women would choose what they can see... a prince. Think about it... Are there enough princes for every woman in this world?
You will always hear this in Korean drama. 你幸福吗? YES... This is what I feel now. Being in love everyday. Every moment. And my love grows... And, I never had this feeling before. I guess this should be the 幸福 the koreans are talking about...
And, I thank God for these... and for Him. | |